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By LegalMatters Staff • Living with an abusive partner can be fraught with danger and deciding to leave the relationship can be difficult if someone believes their safety is in jeopardy.
The World Health Organization reports that intimate partner violence (IPV) is one of the most common forms of violence against women. All genders, ages, socioeconomic, racial, educational, ethnic, religious and cultural backgrounds are impacted by IPV.
According to the Government of Canada, intimate partner violence can occur privately or publicly and includes:
- physical abuse;
- criminal harassment;
- cyber violence;
- sexual violence;
- emotional/psychological abuse; and
- financial abuse.
Edmonton family lawyer Jaskiran Bajwa says while living with an abusive partner is traumatic, many are fearful of the consequences of leaving the relationship.
“If you are in this situation, it is essential to put safety first. Separation and divorce can be a difficult and stressful time, especially when you are dealing with an abusive spouse,” she says.
Bajwa says some people are hesitant to tell others they are victims of domestic violence.
“But it can be the first step in getting the help you need,” she says. “Speak with someone you trust, such as a friend or a family member.”
Community organizations to offer guidance and assistance to victims of intimate partner violence, says Bajwa, adding those in immediate danger, should contact the police.
Having a concrete plan and the finances to leave an abusive relationship is ideal, she says.
“However, if your safety is in jeopardy, you may have to make an immediate decision to flee without the resources you need,” says Bajwa. “Just remember that you can always make arrangements to put your life back together once you are away from the violence.”
